﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"><channel><title>BlogJava-老妖的博客-随笔分类-转载</title><link>http://www.blogjava.net/rocky/category/8390.html</link><description>现实的中没有几个人能够真为对方去死，甚至山盟海誓很快就会在金钱面前变的微不足道，这才是生活。没有永远的爱，除了你的父母对你，当然也就没有永远的恨，更没有永远的痛，时间是最好的治疗大师，它会很快抚平你心灵上累累的伤痕。很多年以后你想起来时，那些在你生命中汹涌来往的人群至多是个模糊的影子或者毫无意义的名字</description><language>zh-cn</language><lastBuildDate>Sun, 04 May 2008 12:43:22 GMT</lastBuildDate><pubDate>Sun, 04 May 2008 12:43:22 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title>大国师-黄金时代的笛声</title><link>http://www.blogjava.net/rocky/archive/2008/05/04/198235.html</link><dc:creator>老妖</dc:creator><author>老妖</author><pubDate>Sun, 04 May 2008 11:30:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://www.blogjava.net/rocky/archive/2008/05/04/198235.html</guid><wfw:comment>http://www.blogjava.net/rocky/comments/198235.html</wfw:comment><comments>http://www.blogjava.net/rocky/archive/2008/05/04/198235.html#Feedback</comments><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.blogjava.net/rocky/comments/commentRss/198235.html</wfw:commentRss><trackback:ping>http://www.blogjava.net/rocky/services/trackbacks/198235.html</trackback:ping><description><![CDATA[&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 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<P>我想我应该还是有错的，所以我要学会沉默，要学会对着错误睁一只眼闭一只眼，关我屁事。……，……，但是但是，我是典型的完美主义者呀，见不得错误，……，嗯，要学会对着错误两只眼都闭上。这就对了。<BR></P>
<P>我一点都不介意被指出错误，只要对方在理，我不但不会有情绪，力所能及下还会屁颠屁颠的全面放弃自己的观点，我说过我是完美主义者嘛，见不得别人的错误，同样也见不得自己的错误。但是，呵呵，想在我擅长的地盘说服我可不是件容易的事。什么，在我不擅长的地方说，不用了，我不擅长的地方完全没自信，肯定一上来就投降，虚心学习。^_^</P><img src ="http://www.blogjava.net/rocky/aggbug/35009.html" width = "1" height = "1" /><br><br><div align=right><a style="text-decoration:none;" href="http://www.blogjava.net/rocky/" target="_blank">老妖</a> 2006-03-13 13:13 <a href="http://www.blogjava.net/rocky/archive/2006/03/13/35009.html#Feedback" target="_blank" style="text-decoration:none;">发表评论</a></div>]]></description></item></channel></rss>