﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:trackback="http://madskills.com/public/xml/rss/module/trackback/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"><channel><title>BlogJava-成功与自信-随笔分类-Life History</title><link>http://www.blogjava.net/deve/category/24365.html</link><description>上善若水。水善利万物而不争,处众人之所恶,故几于道。居善地,心善渊,与善仁,言善信,政善治,事善能,动善时。 
Where there is a will,there is a way.</description><language>zh-cn</language><lastBuildDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 18:55:46 GMT</lastBuildDate><pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 18:55:46 GMT</pubDate><ttl>60</ttl><item><title>五项沟通原则 Interaction Guidelines</title><link>http://www.blogjava.net/deve/archive/2008/04/20/194393.html</link><dc:creator>EugeneCao</dc:creator><author>EugeneCao</author><pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 14:55:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://www.blogjava.net/deve/archive/2008/04/20/194393.html</guid><wfw:comment>http://www.blogjava.net/deve/comments/194393.html</wfw:comment><comments>http://www.blogjava.net/deve/archive/2008/04/20/194393.html#Feedback</comments><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.blogjava.net/deve/comments/commentRss/194393.html</wfw:commentRss><trackback:ping>http://www.blogjava.net/deve/services/trackbacks/194393.html</trackback:ping><description><![CDATA[<p>五项沟通原则 Interaction Guidelines <br />
（一）、维护自尊 加强自信； KP1：Maintain or enhance self-esteem<br />
（二）、仔细聆听 善意回应； KP2：Listen and respond with empathy<br />
（三）、谋求协助 促进参与； KP3：Ask for help and encourage involvement<br />
（四）、分享感受 传情达理； KP4：Share thoughts, feelings, and rationale<br />
（五）、给予支持 鼓励承担； KP5：Provide support without removing responsibility</p>
<p>目标管理的SMART原则，即是： </p>
<p>　　1. 目标必须是具体的（Specific）； </p>
<p>　　2. 目标必须是可以衡量的（Measurable）； </p>
<p>　　3. 目标必须是可以达到的（Attainable）； </p>
<p>　　4. 目标必须和其他目标具有相关性（Relevant）； </p>
<p>　　5. 目标必须具有明确的截止期限（Time-based）；</p>
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